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 Parenting Your Teenager: The Law of ModelingRead about "Parenting Your Teenager: The Law of Modeling " on parentingfact.com. This article, "Parenting Your Teenager: The Law of Modeling ", will help you with your questions or concerns. We parentingfact.com, have a large number of updated articles. Please feel free in searching for more information on parentingfact.com. If you have any questions, please contact us.
When my oldest son was about four and going to a pre-school kind of program, I noticed that he was beginning to say "oh man!" whenever he got frustrated with something. "See, that's what happens when you send them off to be in herds all day, they come home with all this language stuff." A few days later on that weekend, I'm in the garage working on a project. I get frustrated and find myself saying "oh man!" Oh. He's getting those words from me. That was my first lesson in just how very well our children will model what we do and say. It's really kind of scary. No, it's really very frightening. It's frightening because toddlers and teenagers are in very many ways the same beast. And what's even more frightening, we create our teenagers when they are toddlers. One way to use this information is whenever you are wondering about a behavior in a toddler, add 10 years to it. Teens can be very obedient Teens can be very obedient. They will act exactly like we act. If you don't want your teen doing something, make sure you are not doing it yourself. Teens have very strong and sensitive hypocrisy meters and are eager to use them. Visit SecretsofGreatRelationships.com for tips and tools for creating and growing a great relationship. You can also subscribe to our f*r*e*e 10 day e-program on how to enrich your relationship today, from relationship coach and expert Jeff Herring.
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